When I was 13 I was in high school worrying about family issues and hoping I wouldn't be bullyied like the previous year and hoping my feelings towards members of the same Sex disappeared so I wouldn't be picked on ;-; yes the times did change
I don't have crushes on anyone. I just think some people are hot. Having a gf or bf would suck because then you don't get to do stuff with random girls.
*sigh* Well, I hate to be the one to drag this fast-moving train of ingenious discussion, but I'll keep to the OP's intentions.