SomeoneCalledJ's Moderator Application [NZ]

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  1. Krissy
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    I don't find it fair to judge her from something she wrote 1 year back. If you have had her ignored for a few months then you have no idea if she has changed or not. You have no idea whether she has improved. You do not see the full story.
    Having her ignored says to me you have a personal issue with her that you should try and resolve. I just feel like you don't like her as a person and thus are non supporting.

    I have no trouble if you no support her but what I do have an issue with is you judging her app while you have ignored her and bringing up really old evidence to prove shes "unfit". A lot happens in a year, especially for teenagers who are maturing mentally. At least give her a chance to show you that she is not the same person you need to ignore. If she is behaving in a way you dislike then you might be the one who needs to reflect.

    As I said above. I want to see an improvement in how she presents herself, such as that sarcasm but otherwise she is friendly, helpful (as much as you can be on org) and will help timezone wise.
     
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    You have her ignored, how do you know she's still the same as she was months ago? Isn't fair.
     
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    A YEAR ago
     
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    I'm going to be honest here. People change. I am not who I was a year ago, no one is who they were a year ago. They can either change for better or for worse. In this case, J has changed a lot. I respect her very much, and not just because we're friends, but because she's proved to others and myself that she is capable of being a sweet, mature and responsible person.

    J, you would be a great Moderator. You've done stuff in the past, we all have, but we have to move on.
     
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    Pardon? These are my words. my name is Sarah. nice to meet you!
     
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    No one else deserves Mod more than J. We all have to move on, "But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! Now if you know what you're worth then go out and get what you're worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain't you! You're better than that!" - Rocky Balboa.
     
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    How is that possible if you ignored her for a while?
     
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    Again I am not saying J is perfect but you are judging her completely from the past and not the present and I am saying that is unfair to do, not that you cannot do so or have a right.
    It is not right to say you have ignored someone then accuse them of being the same as a year ago. Doesn't mean you can't, but people are going to disagree regardless of friendship.
     
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    I remember you saying you'd never apply, back in the day. :t
    But yeah, total support. You'd be a fantastic addition to the org team, and just the team as a whole. Youre super friendly, open, approachable, active, and just give org a bit more of a "fun feeling" when youre on. Just from skimming over the comments on the last page or so, I see theres a bit of back-and-forth around a few things that J had done in the past. Things have been said - its in the past. I'm certainly not saying its not worth mentioning, nor am I saying any non-support is wrong. But I am a strong believer in people changing. Ive certainly witnessed it, firsthand, in J. :p
     
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    yes babe support :*
     
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    JJJJ might wanna make a new introduction based on what you think of yourself as of now.

    Anywayyy,
    You have helped me a lot and put up with me always interrupting you on ts (sorry ;-; :heart:3). Along with that you respect the other players, and sometimes make more mature jokes, but it usually doesn't bother many players because they are light hearted etc.

    ~Support
    ~Kreena
     
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    This was an old introduction, made last year at October 2015, which was based around the time where I was having an identity crisis. The time when I have said rude, immature and racist things to fit into what I thought to be my friend group. I'm ashamed to even think about the fact that I was incredibly immature last year, since it's definitely not me this year. I know most of you might find it hard to believe when reading all the comments, but I've grown up and realized that some things are not to be made fun of, and that there is a border between being rude and being humorous.

    Making an introduction doesn't seem to bad of an idea. I don't know why I didn't make one earlier when I returned and became active again 6 weeks ago. I'll make sure to make one sometime today to ensure everyone that I have changed and I am not the person I was last year. Thank you for the suggestion. ;)
     
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    Did you "grow up" before or after this app was made?
    More specifically when did your behavior change for the better?
     
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    I'd say I grew up before this app was made. After quitting skyblock.net, and leaving the community for a year (perhaps), I found myself change for the better. Sure the occasional jokes slip in, but I make sure it's not that explicit/highly offensive to say in public chat. I think my behavior changed for the better the moment I cut ties with those I spoke with that influenced me negatively last year, and that I'm improving and becoming a better person by the minute. I'm still currently working on personal issues, and I hope that those said issues will not affect my moderating.
     
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    Support, very active and cool person:poto:
     
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    um she came back 6 weeks ago but ok. I don't know what she was like last year, but if it is what everyone is saying then she has definitely changed for the better. You have my full support.
     
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    Support for JJ 2k16
     
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    You got me curious boi.

    But thanks for the support everyone. :heart:
     
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    Full support. :heart:
     
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