thank youu i appreciate your input, but I think that's a lot of variants that you suggested and it can be really confusing. Regarding the /block, I feel like thats unnecessary too because we already have /ignore in general.. and it could cause potential drama. You are free to make your own suggestion thread with these but I'm really only suggesting to have friend alerts to be toggable so that you yourself can choose whether or not you want your /friends to be able to see that you've come online
support 100%. I get annoyed a lot by people who join another server every minute. And would like to toggle it off by specific people.
It would be nice to sometimes just sneak on quietly rather than alerting everyone sometimes when you don't intend to spend ages online etc.