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  1. PinkyInTheTardis
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    Before I start this thread, I'd like to state one thing:

    This is NOT a thread for you all to start a religious debate.
    I'm stating this once and once ONLY.
    This is a thread for me to explain things and how I'd like to be treated, NOT for you to argue on what's 'right' and what's 'wrong'.


    Not with that out of the way, I'd like to just get this over with and say it.
    I'm a boy.

    Not your average boy though. When I first joined this server, I was female. 100% female, but over the past year I've been figuring out a lot about myself and this is a big step in the right direction for me.


    I'm sure with the media and the internet being such a huge part of everyone's life, you've all heard of Transgender or Transexual, well that's what I am. I'm a afab (assigned female at birth) FTM (female to male) Transboy.

    I'd like to be referred to as He/Him from now on, remember I'm still Pinky, I'm just a different gender. If you do slip up and say 'She/Her' I won't get mad, (unless it's like, the 20th time you've done it) I just wish for all of you to accept me and at least try to get used to this.

    But Pinky, you came out as a lesbian a few months ago, does that mean you're straight now?
    Well, yes and no. No, I do not and can not be a lesbian anymore, so I'm identifying as Pansexual for now as a sort of holder label until I figure it out for myself.

    That's about it really, I didn't make this a big deal like last time because of... things. (Plus I think a few people knew this already).

    K bye.
     
  2. yume
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    That's amazing to hear! Well done in pursuing yourself and having the courage to make this thread.
     
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    Krissy Stray Kids everywhere all around the world Administrator Discord Administrator Premium Premium

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    Sometimes I dont get why people need to label themselves. But you know, I get it that its a way to figure out who you are. So thats great you have figured that out. Took me a good 17 years of my life to accept myself.
     
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    :heart: Yay Pinky ^-^
     
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    That's really cool. I am not trans/bi but i could never have worked up enough courage to tell anyone
     
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    Labels and judge mental appearances is just the way society is...
     
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    that's cool c:
    its good that you had the courage to do it
     
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    :heart: Congrats!
    You're so brave :)
    I hope I'll get to see you more, since I don't talk to you as much. :)
     
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    After looking up Pansexual I have to say I'm mildly surprised and good for you! You have to be true to yourself. I'm forewarning you, I WILL forget to say he/him repeatedly. I'll go with the age excuse, but I'll promise to do my best.
     
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    It's always good to come true and accept yourself. I hope to get to know you more later on in the future! :heart:
     
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    Good job, Pinky :heart:
     
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    I heard you talking about this a while ago, but it's good that you've come out and told everyone here.
    You make a very handsome young man :3
     
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    I don't understand why I needed to know this information, but ok
     
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    Gotta brace for the impending "rude" ratings.
     
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    I haven't really talked to you much so calling you a guy wouldn't be hard. Just outta curiosity, by identifying as a guy do you have to look like a guy if you know what I mean? ;o
     
  16. PinkyInTheTardis
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    If you mean what I think you mean, then no. I am going to get top surgery though, if you don't know what that is, I suggest googling it.
     
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    Congrats x3 Ignore the idiots who try to hate on this thread :b
     
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    Waw congrats!

    You're very brave to tell everyone and good luck in the future~
     
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    Brave of you. I'm happy that you're figuring things out, good on you. All of us support you.
     
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    No offence, but why would someone on a minecraft server care what gender you are, this is minecraft, not Facebook.
    To me, this is a thread looking for attention.
     
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