Coming Out

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  1. a99Bomb99
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    SUPPORT WHOOO FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS AND BELIEFS!!!
    Even though I'm straight (and always will be) I don't understand why homosexual is looked down upon. People love each other, soo...
    my mom looks down on me because I watch anime wtf
     
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    My mom called me ghetto for listening to Willy-bum-bum
     
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    I appreciate and support your mother because it was probably her or father's mistake that you became lesbian.
     
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    IMO being homosexual is absolutely fine, people don't get mad at straight people for being straight so why get annoyed at gay people. The kids at your school not liking you because of being lesbian, that's one thing - but the parents? That's just stupid. It was brave of you to tell everyone on here, not because it's weird to be gay but because you couldn't be sure how people would react. I feel sorry for you for your mum being unsupportive :c
     
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    I nessesarily dont agree with your mother. Because you are who you are, and even if she cant accept you the way you are, well. There are people who are. And i dont agree with your mother, just because you are lesbian and all, doesnt mean she should love you any less. Being les-bi-gay should not change the way people think of you, or how your friends like you. It should be a minor change in your life, even if there is some bumps along the wa. You will find your girl, maybe you would have gone through the situations, but dont be afraid. If someone comes up to you and bullies you, you go and tell someone they dont have the right to use your "lesbian-ness" as a stereotype. Stay strong.
    -={stompy}=-
     
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    There's nothing wrong with being homosexual.
     
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    I am so proud of you girl ! Like everyone else said, it takes insane confidence to be able to show who you are and be true to yourself. Stay away from those people that tear you down because they aren't worth your time. I'm so happy that you have found a clique that you belong in and have people that show that they care about you. If you ever need anything, or just wanna talk, I have and always will be here for you :p
    Love and miss you :heart:
     
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    Sure, but homosexualism is rare phenomenon. I'm sure that 99% of gays are victims of propaganda.
     
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    I'm sorry to hear what happened before you were accepted for you who are, and that your mother hasn't realized that she needs to accept who you are. It takes a lot of courage to come out and make a post of this. I'm glad you've found a group of friends that accept you. I don't know why people have so much hate against homosexuality, but remember to just ignore people who will be like that. I accept you for who you are and most people will here. You're still the same pinky I know from when we talked on TeamSpeak/Skype with the TST/CubexTrain Productions :cat
     
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    I know that.
     
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    I wasn't talking to you, hence why I quoted someone else's post, not yours
     
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    It takes guts to do this. You're amazing. Don't let anyone bring you down.
     
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    Pinky, no matter what I still love you. :) You are the same girl that I known since like a year now cx
    If anyone want to break you or tare you down they'll have to go through me first ;) know that you're strong an i f you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here, always! ^.^ love you~
     
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    I was 11 years old when I came out, and I was a lesbian up till two years ago.
     
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    What's really upsetting me is that there are so many people disagreeing with the people who say being homosexual is fine, which it is.
     
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    Unfortunately some people say it's wrong and others say it's right but the problem is when people try and tell others that their opinion is wrong. But either way, gay or not we should treat people nicely and respectfully
     
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    Assuming that, that would mean gay or lesbian people are born different, which is false, being gay is a choice.. you're not born gay or straight as you're not born with no sexual feelings!
     
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    Zambiana is right,
    I feel like media/social media these days have been a bit more negative. FaceBook, Twitter, Instagram, etc, is another way to bully someone from across the world because of their choices. Yes, she may be 12... But haven't you seen some other 'twelvies' who choose big decisions? Even some 9 year olds have even chosen the same path as her.

    Sometimes, it's best to accept that person... Maybe once you get to know them more, it'll make everything better.
     
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    lol
    I have no idea where you're getting these statistics from, but I'd like to point out a few things.
    For one, homosexualism is not a word. Homosexuality is. This has no effect on the point you're trying to make and I'm not going to denounce it just because of this. I am, however, going to denounce it for the following reasons.

    Homosexuality is not rare. 3.8% of American adults identify as a member of the LGBT community, 3.5% of them being gay, lesbian, or bisexual. We won't include transgenders in this statistic. The U.S. has a population of roughly 320,480,000 people at the time of writing this. 320,480,000 / 0.035 = 11,216,800. I don't think it's exactly rare if upwards of 11 million people in the U.S. alone identify as homosexual or bisexual.

    Also, I'm not 100% sure what you mean by 99% of gay people are victims of propaganda. This is clearly a statistic you pulled from thin air, and I assume you're trying to say that 99% of gay people are not really gay, but have some other motive. This wasn't made clear however, I'm sure you're just throwing big words out so people agree with you.

    Now that I'm done refuting what you've said, I'd like to make one final point. You just went to a 12 year old's post telling her story of how she lost friends and respect from her peers for her sexuality and you reduce it to a mistake by her parents. You are scum. That's all.

    Moving away from this, Pinkydrew3 you are 12 years old. I don't really suppose sexual activities are something on your agenda any time in the near future, so I'm not really sure you should call yourself homosexual. I'm not going to deny that you are, but just think about that please. I did the same thing when I was about your age (except I said I was bisexual) and it yielded similar results. I lost quite a lot of friends and it hurt bad. I understand. My only advice to you is to take comfort in the people who still have respect for you and wish to be your friend. I'm sure everyone else has told you the same thing, but this is from a person who's gone through the same thing at the same age, and has come out of it a happy person. Again, I'm not 100% sure that you're truly homosexual, but I'm not going to sit here and tell you you're wrong. Feel free to shoot me a PM if you're in need of advice from someone who's gone through it.

    God bless you.
     
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