Laura, its not that im giving them a lesser chance. Its just on my old coop, I had a default join my island, then 1 week later, they griefed it and took everything.
Donors grief as well :/ your best bet on finding a coop who won't grief is to find a forum user who hasn't been banned for grieving before
even tho donors grief its more likely to get griefed by a default coop than a donor coop just saying lol
Idk, you can ask them yourself. Right now in the ban appeals there is a 100 appealing a griefing ban.