I know a lot of people have complained of being called gay and here is what i have to say. As a Jewish teenager I really have no problem with any religion, belief, or sexual belief unless one that makes you want to hate others. I am constantly teased about being gay even though i am not, for many ridiculous reasons. The first is I am a 15 year-old boy with long hair and I love colors an insane amount (especially neon rainbow). Also when I broke my thumb the color cast i wanted was pink. I have also been bullied since the fourth grade which is a long time to be horribly harassed. When you go through school, kids will find almost any way to make you upset or try (and hopefully fail) to make you cry. my advice is DON'T CRY OR YELL. Since I have been bullied so long what I think you should do is ignore them or just laugh. Even if this doesn't apply to you take this advice: DON'T JOIN!! It makes you just as bad as the bully(s). Most of all i would like to say: good luck!!
I am being bullied these days in my gym class, and I had my teacher talk to them, he did and said he told them that if they continue, he will try to get the worst possible punishment (which is fines and possible jail time).
Usually when people are trying to get under my skin, I say thanks, because it really seems to irritate them. Seriously though, try your best just to ignore bullies, hurtful comments simply aren't worth your time. I know that words can hurt, and it's okay to be upset... but be upset, and then move forward. Don't dwell on the comments from the confused, the scared and the ignorant, they'll get it figured it out someday, and they'll regret their past. Besides, there's nothing wrong with being gay, it definitely shouldn't be taken as an insult. Yes, it's irritating and frustrating to be labeled, especially when it's a mislabel. However, you're the only one who gets to define your identity. Being gay has nothing to do with the colours, shows, songs you like, the hobbies or friends you have, the way you look, the way you talk or anything else that happens to be physical or personality traits. It has to do with who you love and that's it. There's nothing wrong with love. Do not let anyone tell you that you can't be who you are, or that because you are one way that you have to be another. As long as you're not hurting anyone else, do what you like to do, and do what makes you happy. I guarantee there are other people out there who understand and who like it too. It's a big world, some people just have trouble seeing more then there small corner. Long post, I know. I'm sorry. I don't like seeing people hurt, and I know that words can hurt, I know that well. They really can only hurt you as long as you let them though. Accept yourself, love yourself and the comments will seem a lot smaller in the end.
I have experienced this a ton in my school. I've been called fat, ugly, and other nasty words, but I just shrug it off. I don't really care about what they say. If they're born like that, I hope they end up in H*** for being rude, and selfless to others. If people were born friendly like most of these mods), they'll be friendly throughout their whole life, and will end up in Heaven for their good deeds. It doesn't matter about who you are on the outside. It just matters about what's on your inside. You may have heard this phrase: "Don't judge a book by its cover. Judge it by its contents." This applies to everything in the world. Even a bear which may be threatening on the outside, may actually be nice on the inside (well some.) All people were created to be equal. No matter how dumb or smart or how good-looking or how ugly you are, we're all the same. We all just have different personalities. For example, a boy would have his cast pink. I would've blown a pink bubble gum (okay, that's not a good point), but we choose anything what we want to do. In Minecraft, I've been called names in a huge different story. I'm well known for being a hero by stopping hackers (flying hackers in pvp: knocked them out with a Power V bow ) and cute for some reason when they think that I hack and then regret that and say that I'm cute (weird) Like what Keeper said on top of me, accept yourself, love yourself and be who you are. Don't let the bullies hurt you. If you are being bullied in your school, tell a teacher or principal and they'll deal with them with a suspension or some good decision that'll keep them away from you. Never... EVER let your spirit down. Be cheerful, and be happy.
Bullies bully for Power. My advice would be to punch them lol. If u punch them the bullying will stop most likely, it worked for me!
There's nothing wrong at all with Jews. You wanted pink? Cool I know heaps of people who like pink. I like it as well. Don't be ashamed if you're bullied, Ignore them and say "Is that a compliment? Thank you!"
I get bullied everyday including today, but you know what I'm used to it so if they call me names or call a midget because I'm small I don't care anymore I'm used to it.. :chicken
Keep in mind this. School won't last forever. Once you go to college, you are a new person. You can be who you want. No one will care. And I'm pretty sure that if someone is bullying in college, they get kicked out
I feel like bullying happens more in younger grades, I was never really made fun of, and in high school I don't really see it at all and it will be my senior year next year. Idk I've never really been a victim.
Wow, just makes me appreciate who I am. I have never been bullied or picked on really. If I ever see a thing when others are messing with other people, I try and stop it, but I am fortunate enough to go to school where this isn't a major issue. Luckily for my body, build, and just who I am it probably won't ever be a problem. I wish you the best of luck, and I also wish anyone else good luck who reads this and is being bullied. If you're being bullied and want to talk about it, go ahead and inbox me. I can help you get around them hopefully, and maybe a simple conversation can help you. You never know.
I haven't been bullied, well except for when this really big kid wanted me to give her piggyback rides... Whenever someone is rude or offensive, I say you smell and I walk away. It's how I roll. I don't actually care for what people who I couldn't care less about think of me. I am who I am, and they won't change it, no matter how much people dislike how I dress, what I like, what my opinions are. Don't let them get to you. Just because you like this or that doesn't mean you're gay, not saying there's anything wrong with that, since there isn't. What you can do to make yourself feel better, just think to yourself, that those people don't matter, they are just trying to get under your skin for you to be scared or sad, so they are able to walk all over you. If someone judges you because you're Jewish, then they're ignorant and rude. If you choose to have long hair, it doesn't mean you're stupid or something. I wish you good luck, and I hope those bullies learn to be polite, and not earn respect from being a jerk.
