My friend wants to kill herself, HELP!!

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  1. dolpinmilk
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    You need to get a high authority person involved and yourself to end the bullying. Principles can only do so much. Our parents can't protect us 24/7. Eventually you'll either need to do something to make him stop. Have no fear in standing up to a bully. The way I was told is if a bully hits you, hit him hard enough for him to learn something. Of course that could always break out in a fight. If the bully is making fun of them in class, throw your book right at him. Teacher will call you up, and you explain it in front of the whole class how he's a bully. Parents can't protect or prevent bullying, people need to stand up for themselves too.

    Writing a note of suicidal vs doing it is such a different level. Listen to what Shane said. I'm sure she's fine. But what I'd do, depending on your level of friendship with her + her family, hang out with her all day. Don't push into the subject too much. Try to make it a fun day and relaxing for her. Do anything to keep the thought off her mind. Teach her to love again.

    Good luck dude
     
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    This is a very serious situation, you need to quickly contact an adult.
    If she does not answer or go to school the next day, please call the home phone and talk to
    her guardians. If you still have no answer, you need to quickly go to her home, talk her out of it.
    Tell her she is not the only person and this huge mistake can cause a big loss.
    This is not something that rarely happens, I used to have this problem once as well. Please tell her not
    to give up her life and that the people who love her will always do so. As said above, always talk to an adult, either if it is your mother, a teacher or anybody.
     
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    Thank you all for your help, but I went digging through her friends and figured out her parents phone number. I told them and they took care of her, and kept an eye on her. I called every 30 minutes to make sure she was ok.
     
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    I also talked to the teachers, I called the school to make sure to have the teachers watch her tomorrow.
     
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    I hope everything is fine, even though she still has suicidal thoughts.
     
  6. dolpinmilk
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    Suicidal thoughts don't just disappear bud. It's a long waiting game
     
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    Why are you posting this on a block game forum?
     
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    I hope this ends well. You did the right thing though, you did something that most people don't get the satisfaction of doing: Saving someone's life.

    You have my full respect.
     
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    Just because it is a game played for fun, doesn't mean people can't be having serious conversations.
     
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    Build up 60 pieces of cobblestone and jump off it.
     
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    Have a little sympathy at least...
     
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    You are kidding right? Call the freaking police, a suicide hotline or something, jesus. Or even just go to her house, keep her from killing herself as much as you can. Yeah, bullying is s*** but if she f***ing kills herself then she's literally making the bullies happier.

    I'd type a sentimental paragraph but screw that s*** just go make sure she's ok
     
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    Yeah he's kidding.
     
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    oh i just read the second page, nvm then
     
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    Wtf is that supposed to mean? If you have nothing even remotely nice to say then stop commenting here. This is a serious topic that isn't supposed to be joked about.

    Also if you are saying to kill myself then you will be hearing about this from a mod.
     
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    I know you care about her but don't overwhelm her with support either, because it'll make her cower away tbh and stop sharing her thoughts with you. Yes you should tell her parents, but it's up to the parents to tell the school etc. . There's a line where you shouldn't cross even if you're trying to help her, cause if the kids at school find out, it'll cause her more harm then good etc.

    Suicidal thoughts don't disappear that's 100% true. It just depends if the person will take action to those thoughts. Many I know of have those thoughts, but will not carry through with it, or will have someone talk them out of it etc, but in general, be there for her but don't overwhelm her.

    (If I knew my friend went behind my back and told the teachers about my depression etc, I wouldn't feel too happy about it :p but that's just my personality)
     
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    I didn't know telling someone to kill themselves in a game was against the rules, but if you wanna be a b**** about it go ahead lmfao.
     
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    Contact an adult, preferably a teacher or someone you know she trusts. There really is no reason for you to handle it alone so just let the old people take care of it.
     
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    Don't call the cops on someone. Saltiest thing you can do.
     
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    Doctors have a duty of care to their patients. If they are in danger they need to get involved people who can assist. Usually this is the ambulance and police.
     
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