Hello I need your help. Today in class my friend said she was getting bullied, and I said that she should tell the teacher. She said that she wanted to kill herself. I wasn't sure if she was being serious, but soon I realized she was. Me and her friend we went and told one of the teachers. We all talked together and it seemed like it was all over. But then as class ended, she wrote a note and it said she didn't care if we didn't want her to kill herself said she would do it today. But I only read the note when I got home, because she put it In my pocket, when I found it, I called her and she didn't answer. Then I tried one more time and it just immediately said she was unnavailabe.

I don't have her moms phone number, so I can't tell her. And the school wouldn't give it to me either. Idk what to do.

 

Wherever you are, call the Kids Helpline or Wellbeing Services, or even the Police if it is on such a level. Also, I
don't recommend sharing such content on Forums, as it is quite a serious matter.

 

You need to contact an adult, and not some young kids on the internet...

 

Go to her house or try her phone?
If someones in that state theyre convinced that the world is better off without them. But you can take all the preparation steps, you can have a note, a plan, but actually doing the act is a whole different level...

 

Let natural selection do its thing.

Obviously she's attention seeking, anyone who was gonna kill themself wouldn't tell anyone.

 

Refer to national suicide hotline number. Also, how old is she? 90% sure its teen angst.

 

Bruh. Don't post this type of stuff online. There's kids on here!!

But if you want some tips, Call the Police, tell a teacher or principal or even the Parents!

 

Find the one bullying her.
Contact the principal.
Tell the principal.
Get the bully suspended.

Or tell the bully's parents/or everyone that they hangout/are friends with so they will feel bad about what they've done. And then proceed to force them to apologize with full on threats of police contact, then call the police no matter what.


Or the way that is more dangerous:
Find the bully.
And beat the living crap out of them.

Or, post all about what they did onto the Internet with links to all of their profiles on all forms of social media.

 

And the person posting and in question are probably also kids. Many people should know what bullying can lead people to. Also that is quite rude to say! It doesn't even seem like you feel bad at all.

 

First things first, why are you posting this on a kid-major server? Some people are pretty young and this can trigger them. If they see the title of this thread, won't that just scare them?

Second, call the suicide prevention line like stated above. Contact people for further assistance. This is a serious matter not meant to be discussed on here, but um, I'll just roll with it.

I mean, if she's not picking up or anything...

 

Well, kids will learn about it either from first-hand experience or in school when they talk about it in assemblies.

Also kids are anywhere from 1 day-17 years and 364 (or 365 on leap year) days old. So, this can apply to anyone.

 

Because asking for advice is common and its a subject more easily discussed online than awkwardly with an adult?

 

Be there for her, when I was bullied my friends left me and it made me feel even worse. Get an adult, tell her parents, a teacher, anything. If you or your friend doesn't tell an adult, it's only going to get worse.

If it gets at a bad point, and she won't let go of the thought for quite some time, I suggest a hotline meant for this.

 

I'm sorry but the internet has made the word trigger a complete joke to me and I can't take it seriously.
Anyway -- this shouldn't be scaring anyone, if anything the kids will either ignore it or sympathize with the thread, in the latter leading them to likely post here with advice/help.

 

welp, pretty true tbh

 

I've dealt with this before. Personally, I would notify someone right away. I wouldn't go directly up to the bully yourself. This might cause you to get picked on. I would just tell the principal tomorrow. Also, try to be there for your friend. This can be comforting in this situation that she finds herself in.

 

Out of curiosity how old is she?

Also if someone who wants to commit suicide and tells someone means in their heart they wish to be stopped.
--> the cold hard truth is if someone is determined to suicide, they wouldn't tell someone that they know will try and stop them.

 

There's nothing you can do unless you can get in contact with her. Sit with them, talk to them. Distract them. Make sure they know they're not alone, and you'll be there for them. Also yall are young. There's more years to come in life that will be much better then this.
Besides does she really want to give the bullies satisfaction that they managed to knock her down?

Depending on the personality of the person depends on how you talk to them. I've got a couple of previous suicidal friends who are now living their life to the fullest with rare relapses.

 

Ask them if they have kik and let me talk to them. ❤️❤️❤️

If you can...