Yeah, you seem to be great around people LOL. You bemoan people saying "I'm an introvert etc.." then your next statement is "I have anger issues and am an introvert" WTF. Great trolling dude, keep up the good work. Good day.
Coming from someone who suffers from severe depression and is quite cynical: I see where you're coming from and what you're saying. I also agree with what you're saying, to an extent. There are plenty of people who have, are and will be seeking attention by these claims. Some do it intentionally, some are oblivious to it. And then there are those who actually have it, but choose to deal with it in a way which obviously gets on your nerves. People process their troubles and feelings differently in a way to cope or supress them. Some don't like to share what's wrong with people, and some do (in such a way as it can be percieved as 'attention seeking'). I read people. I love to read who, what and why people are and do what they do. I love to try and lurk out why people do what they do, something I fail to do on myself. Now, this bit right here got a bit on my nerves, however; "Now, I'm going to say that there are people who have actually gone through REAL hardships". You can't decide what is a REAL struggle (don't bring "the struggle is real" crap here, everyone). No matter how big or small people's problems are, they can sure as hell bring a big impact to their lives. I don't know which 'popular members' are the ones you thought of when you wrote this, if you could bring some enlightment to it, that'd be great. After all, they've already gone public with their problems, haven't they? So I'm assuming naming one/some won't really be such a hustle. It's just for discussion purposes. It's easy to see who pretends, and who doesn't. It's not so easy to over come problems, which brings me to the next point. Gonna take your Spoiler up in here. I get the feeling of this being a very, very subjective statement as opposed to your formal start. Unfortuntaley, I couldn't find a good source that explains what an introvert is, from an objective point of view. So instead I grabbed this line from Wikipedia: "introvert (comparative more introvert, superlative most introvert) (of a person) Who focuses primarily on their own mind, feelings, or affairs." No comments or personal inputs in this quote. Feels more reliable than the explenations by authors (which was one of the sources I found, that I didn't want to use). Introversion is not a disease in itself, but sure as hell contribute towards social anxiety. You get comfortable with you, and yourself only. You don't like being with others a whole lot, and eventually you start to get 'sick' of being with them. One thing leads to another (great phrase, if I may say so myself) and voila, you got yourself a soup of anxieties. As an introvert, I am not scared of doing things which involves lots of people. I'm uncomfortable and don't like it. We live in a society where interaction with other people face to face is no longer the only way of forming bonds. Something you don't understand, as you tell us (or rather request us) to adapt. You fail to see the adaption is already made by a lot of people. We adapt to the society which has made it's home partially on the web. There isn't one place for social interaction. There isn't one perfect adaptation. We behave differently, varying from person to person. The fact that you might be getting over your anxiety doesn't mean everyone has the same ability. Now it's my turn to give you a clear f***ing message on what an introvert is, from my POV; An introvert is someone who does not feel comfortable with others. They seek refuge and power within themselves, instead of others. It's not a bad thing, but you are preaching of it making it look as if it's nothing, when in reality, it can become a giant problem. You know nothing of what an introvert is, as everyone experience life differently from you. You can not disregard what others are feeling. Learn to understand others, instead of glorifying yourself. This is what life is about. Not you, but everyone you are interacting with. Everyone you might hurt with these careless statements. News flash. You are not important in this life. I am not important. Crew isn't important. X isn't important. On our own, we are not important for s***. It's who we are with, and who we affect that makes up who we are, which makes us important. You have to realize that every action, has an equal and opposite reaction. "Cause and effect" Your final words didn't stirr up much in me, except a slight annoyance at the ignorance. But I can't speak for others, and how they feel when they read your post.
People are different online then they are irl bro, that, I will not argue with. I'm way different in real life.
I didn't really pay much attention to what an introvert is. Reality is, I don't really care anymore. This is the internet, it isn't going to stop people from talking about things, so in some cases its put up or shut up. Half of skyblock probably know my crap because I said it time after time which I actually regret. Im done here. unwatching
Question: Why is "depression" now such a big deal? If we just stopped getting all upset over it and making fun of people for it and using it as an excuse to be mean or whatever people do, then we could just leave it alone. Like, we don't need to talk about it so much and make fun of people for it. People with depression seem to have enough to deal with, and I'm guessing they really don't need people telling them there's something wrong with them. Like, they didn't have "depression" a hundred years ago or so. I don't even think they had it fifty years ago! When you tell someone they have a mental disorder, it makes them feel like there's something wrong with them, and there isn't. They're just more emotional and get upset more easy than others and stuff. It's not like there's something wrong with being a pessimist about life.
Well, in reality it is a disorder. It disrupts your normal way of living to a point where normal activities and liabilites become impossible to handle. It's been around for a while. It hasn't been considered an illness since the start. In fact, it was documented as an illness around the 1930s (Seeing depression differently References & Sources) and since then escalating in numbers, as more humans filled the globe. Depression works differently from person to person. If you're going to do something about it, you need to accept it first. Saying that there is something wrong with a person helps more than disregarding it, and leaving time to do its job. Sorry to say that you are wrong in that.
Just curious if you plan on replying to my thread or just ignore it. Perhaps you think I was hating on you. It's just one of my ways of discussing
Okie, well maybe I'm just different xD My brain works differently than other people's, so yeah. I don't think like everyone else, and maybe that's just how it works in my head. But, I feel like it makes things worse when people say that something's wrong with me. 'Cause, the world seems to be telling me people with depression are retards -.- So, like, people seem to assume that other people with mental disorders are like, really messed up and deserve to be bullied. To mean people like that, anyone with a disorder is stereotypically crazy or something. I don't like it when someone says there's something wrong with me.
Fair enough. Everyone lives life differently and have different thoughts about things Everyone copes with their emotions on their own terms, and differently from others
I like how you explained your reasoning in disagreeing with my post, rather than avoiding talking to me and simply clicking the disagree button xD
I just wrote up a whole paragraph that was about thirty-forty sentences, then my computer freaked out and deleted it. Well, the moral of it is... There's nothing wrong with being yourself! Being yourself isn't a mental disorder, some people are just really hyper or really emotional or whatever. It's not a disorder; it's this thing called a personality. Sure, some people have it to such a degree it disrupts their every-day life, but I'll bet you the majority of people who say they have disorders or are told they have disorders are really just normal in their own crazy way. Not everyone who is different has a mental disorder. If you have a real mental disorder that is really messing up your life, you should probably see a therapist or a psychiatrist rather than a bunch of tweens. Mental disorders are real-life problems that need real-life solutions. Don't rely on a bunch of little kids to save you. Save yourself! Minecraft is a game that people play to get rid of boredom or stress. Don't bring your outside problems into minecraft. A minecraft problem is when you forgot to bring wood with you on a mining trip. Let's have fun. DON'T ruin the game for yourself and everyone else! Keep real problems in reality!
lol, sorry for taking so long, well... I need to comprehend this first... you took this to the next level, you responded in a fairly complex manner, I'll get to you as soon as I fully understand this, part of the way I personally learn is by fully comprehending things before responding, and what you posted is some serious sh*t... but for now.
So, um wait... do you think the way I say I do... without consideration of others feelings... or do you try your best not to offend anyone? Just curious. Now, Let me answer your statement. First, let me answer one of your statements, " I don't know which 'popular members' are the ones you thought of when you wrote this, if you could bring some enlightment to it, that'd be great." Well, I will not name the popular members I mentioned, but you claim to know where I am coming from, so try and figure it out for I cannot say the names, I do not give a f*ck about anyone's feelings except a selected few, but I do believe in respect and various other virtues, saying the names would disrespect them. I hope you understand. Now, for your next statements... "You know nothing of what an introvert is, as everyone experience life differently from you. You can not disregard what others are feeling. Learn to understand others, instead of glorifying yourself. This is what life is about. Not you, but everyone you are interacting with. Everyone you might hurt with these careless statements." Ok, well, what I've been through is not as much physical as it is mental, I like to say I'm a heartless person, because its the only way people will understand me. I repeat I do not care about anyone's feelings except a selected few, and some I'm deciding whether or not to respect. Now, I may "glorify" myself as you stated, and I think what your trying to say is being an Introvert is not the same to some people than others, just like all Extroverts are not the same, all introverts are also different, and maybe, there is no such thing as these different groups of people, we are all human, we do have different experiences and different personalities, but at the end of the day, we all have something in common. After your statements, I didn't understand much after that, if you will simplify it for me it would be appreciated lol. And your last statement about my "ignorance" is just what you probably perceive as selfishness and heartlessness , I do not expect you to know much about my personality or what my perspective on the world is. Goodbye, and great work... make a book already xD
