Do I come back? I quit this server. I was visiting this server a couple of times seeing if there's updates and I just claimed my kits sometimes when I visit this server.
Now is a great time to come back. Since the (relatively) recent 1.19 update, a lot of new items are being bought and sold like crazy.
If already suffer from mental health issues you have nothing to lose honestly. If you dont have mental health issues and dont want to contract any from this server then dont come back.
The 1.19 version for the server has released in items and content and there may be planned updates in the near future that you could come back unless you got major things going on outside of sb.
I don't think 1,163 messages is too awful considering that some people have over 10,000. But since Oak is an exception in my book, I gladly agree!