Hello everyone. My name is Nihk. I joined this forums site recently as I'd heard good things about it. But, I am here to be the bearer of some not so great news... I hate to be the one to pick on children here. But ever since I've joined, I have been FLOODED- yes, flooded - with nothing but hate and negative energy. The players here seem not only immature, but rude, and un-welcoming. I expected to be flooded with welcoming, friendly faces, not the hate I am currently receiving. I would hate to point fingers, but I must mention some people. Dane you were very rude to me. You mocked me, and made me feel bad. Mai and amy and capripanda all laughed along. I dont get it. I thought I could maybe find a place where I belong, guess not. Well, my point here is not to be a grump. It's to help you all. Help you become better people. Approachable, friendly people. As most of you are teens you are not fully mature yet. So yes, I understand. But I'm here to teach you, from an adult's point of view. You will regret being 'edgy' in a few years. So keep that in mind and don't say I didn't warn you all See you through the screen, -Nihk
Let me explain some of the reasons as to why you may think I feel the need to be 'negative' to you. Since joining the forums you've made it a point to tell us your age on multiple occasions in which you implied that because we are younger than you, that automatically makes you better, have more life experience and or know whats good for everyone. I don't know why you feel the need to father all of us on how to be mature, or not childish because you know nothing about us personally. I'd also like to mention the two separate occasions where I saw you trying to either impress or befriend an 11 year old. I honestly don't think it's appropriate at all to be telling a 11 year old that they are beautiful if you don't have some what of a personal relationship in-a-real-life setting. You will come across as a complete pedophile on the internet if you say that to every underage female or male that you meet; I'm not sure if you've used the internet before or if you don't understand the social aspects surrounding issues related to talking to minor or underage kids. If you would like a warm welcome or friends I suggest that you don't go stomping around saying that you're trying to teach us all to be better people, because we don't need that. I don't know if you're a complete troll or you are genuinely trying to get people to hate you. I'm going to give you some advice and tell you to leave everyone alone and let them act how they want to act, if you have an issue with someone report them and a Moderator will deal with that accordingly. You know nothing about anyone here so you're ridiculous assumptions on how everyone behaves and how you think they should behave are stupid and just make everyone dislike you. This is a minecraft forum, not a I'm looking for someone with little to no life experience teach me how to live my own life. If you have an issue with not being able to express yourself, I suggest you find somewhere else to do so.
As for your viewing pleasure I will compile a list of images in which you oppress your concern with us being immature, and feel the need to teach us all how to behave. Wow, here is the adult here to teach us how to be edgy teens
If you're wondering why you're being "flooded . . . with nothing but hate and negative energy," it's probably because you do things like this. You've just made a thread calling out all players, insulting them as "immature," "rude," and "un-welcoming." You then proceeded to call out specific people in a public thread, tagging them to get their attention (as if to draw more so-called hate and negativity). Finally, you end with arrogance, saying that you're "help[ing]" and "teach[ing]" everyone through this "warn[ing]" of yours. I don't wish to be rude, but here are my two cents. Please keep any negative and inflammatory opinions to yourself. Just because you're an "adult" (and a quite recent one at that, according to your profile) doesn't mean that you're mature. At the moment, the one who is acting childish is you. If you wish to be welcomed by this community, please refrain from calling others out, belittling others, being generally provocative, and acting arrogant. Just be nice and polite. Treat others how you wish to be treated, regardless of age or maturity--if they don't return the favor, that's on them. Otherwise, you won't just be "unwelcome," you'll be unwanted.
Yes. Because many of the players here are mature. You are so blind, you can't even see my good intentions? I'm trying to help you all in life. Don't you want jobs? Families? Heck, don't you want friends? I'm helping you
Krissy Tagging an online moderator. Does this thread even adhere to the forum rules? I had thought that call-out threads were illegal.
I have a job, family and friends? What would you teaching us how to behave changing that at all; from what I saw before you said you didn't have a job so obviously I need to teach you how to live your life. What we are trying to say is that we don't need you're help, this is a block game for varying ages you are literally a minority if not completely irrelevant on this forum so we don't need your aggressive and ignorant opinion.
I'm sorry to hear that you have been experiencing this. What Dane posted seems to show a complete other side to the story. Sort out your problems in PM, or get a moderator to help you with that.
Good intentions doesn't mean you should act like everyone is immature and needs guidance. I am 22 years old. I never make it a point to ever say this makes me better than the teenagers who play. My life experience is helpful to some of the younger friends I have made. It takes time for people to respect you. You made a bad impression on the community by acting like you were better because you are an adult but truth is there are a lot of members who are over 18, integrate in our community, are great members and have life experience to share. They made a good impression on the community and would be go to people for advice and example. They don't put down the community to try and teach lessons. Taking the time to get to know people and be humble would have made all the difference. Your posts just put down everyone. You cannot say this "negativity" is all one sided. As for the rules, our forums do not appreciate threads made to call our other members. As such I urge if you have issues to message the users instead.
