I'm going through a mild depression right now. Everybody's always talking about me behind their backs. I could even ask a simple question in class and they'll just assume that I'm an idiot. I'm the loser at my school that not everybody likes. I like to express myself like this by drawing on my arm. Even my best friends just think I'm trying to be "edgy" by doing this. It's gotten to the point where I just want to be alone. I want to be away from everything, from society, from technology, and even my best friends. I want to just to be by myself for eternity sometimes. Mine as well not go trick-or-treating today. I'll just lock myself up in my room and cry myself to sleep. My friends just think I'm some sort of a freak now.
I believe you and I are going through the same thing (sort of) I can talk with you if you want and we discuss with each other about what is wrong. I practised therapy for about 2 years so if you want to talk to me feel free to send me a pm or start a convo. I would be more than happy to talk with you
I get these moments a lot. I can't say I have found anything that helped too much. I know people have made me feel better but its not wise to rely on people. But I hope things improve for you.
I'll give you a piece of my cookie, I don't share my food with people so feel special child (Even tho you might be older then me)
Schmoobin I'm sorry to hear you're not feeling great at the moment. If I can share a bit of advice from my 33 years on this earth is work through the anxiety and pressure you are feeling right now. It won't always be like this, honest. School is filled with so much pressure for young people nowadays, through social media, society and peer pressure let alone tests and academia etc... Just continue being yourself and be confident that you are an individual. Soon, your peers will respect you for being an individual and maintaining your integrity rather than just following the crowd and trying to fit in. It's fine to spend time on your own, don't feel bad for wanting some space if you feel you need it. Putting on a brave face and showing people that you are not phased by their taunting will either make them bored with the put downs and move on or come to respect and remember you for being yourself. Keep strong. Remember what is truly important in life - friends, family etc... and please know that things Will get better, this won't last for long. I hope you feel better soon
I know how this feels sir. And my advice is to read what others have said first of all. And secondly, just know that eventually school will be over.
If your "friends" think that you are edgy and freak they are not your friends. Don't give up on life, whoever bullies you and think that you are an idiot well they are idiots. We here are you friends and we will always have your back. If someone talks behind your back don't do the same otherwise you will fall on their level.
Just dont let all the negatives around you gets inside you, always think positive. Hope u feel good soon
Quick fix: Stop drawing on your arm, draw on paper. Realize nobody cares about you, everyone else is busy worrying about themselves. This idea that every move you make is being watched is what is screwing up your mind.
I know it's hard and I know how you feel. Take all the negativity out of your house and try and stay as positive as possible. If you're thinking of doing something stupid to yourself, call a suicide hotline.
The hard part for me is feeling like I shouldn't contribute something as I'm typing the message, and writing out a whole message then deleting it. It always feels like no one will agree or I'll offend someone. The hardest part is pressing that Post Reply button at the bottom.
Don't let them bully you just be a better bully or find a way to befriend them and just not piss them off
Bullying some one back does not make it better.. just be yourself and dont answer when they talk to you.. i do it all the time.. all you do is if they say somthing rude to you dont reply and then walk away
This is a terrible piece of advice. 'be a better bully' or 'try to fit in for their sake'? This isn't going to help the kid dude.
lmao. hard not to piss them off if youre bullying, aye? Don't listen to him, terrible terrible advice. I myself don't have any advice to offer. Just look out for yourself~
