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  1. MattMasterChoi
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    So lately my friends have been ignoring me and I do not know what to do

    should I try to talk to them?
    or should I just watch it out and see what happens?

    Any advice would help!
     
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    Uhh not the best at this, but your age would help. Usually just ask them if they're mad at you or something, or why they're not talking to you like they used to.
     
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    Just talk to your friend, figure out Why the are upset with you
     
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    Krissy Stray Kids everywhere all around the world Administrator Discord Administrator Premium Premium

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    also ignoring you how?
     
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    Never assume someone is ignoring you, never assume anything actually. Lol.

    Just talk to them, ask them why they're being distant maybe?
     
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    You're on a raft right now. Your friends are on their own rafts, ok. Now you guys are all in this river called The River of Life. There are multiple streams attached to this river.

    If you choose to ask them, you come closer to them and go down the stream that they go through, whether it be rough or easy.

    If you ignore them too, you drift away from there.

    Your choice to make the decision. I'd say ask 'em. :)
     
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    TL;DR: River of Life. Talk to your friends.
     
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    Dig a hole and sit in it. This should help. It will only work if you post a selfie of you doing it tho.
     
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    The thing is that they are just straight up not talking to me whatsoever.
    i walk towards them at school and they say get the **** out and walk away
    when ever i try to contact them online, they just block me
     
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    Welp, time is the solution then.

    And that's pretty darn sassy of 'em .-. Maybe you should give them the space they need? But at the same time, don't allow your entire life to depend on those specific friends. Try and move on if things don't get better. I don't mean to assume things, but that's a pretty rude way to speak to their "friend". Maybe you should just get people that actually enjoy your time and company.

    I'm not great at advice, but if a person does not care about you the way you care about them, forget 'em. They shouldn't waste your valuable time.

    Goooddd luckk man.
     
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    Well if they are doing that then expand your friend group. It would give them space, and at your age probably make them jealous. Just find friends with the same interests you have then who knows maybe that new friend will become your best friend and end up living with you after college.
     
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    alrighty thanks for these suggestions a mod can lock up now :)
     
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    Honestly did you read this thread and think someone in their 20s wrote it? I'm curious, sir.
     
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    Well, if my friends are ignoring me, I'll leave em alone for a few days, and if it gets worse, I'll talk to them.
     
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    Maybe, he doesn't mean to ignore you. If you feel like they are, maybe just have a nice talk with them, see what's wrong. And tell them you feel ignored, and wish they'd do etc, etc.
    If they still ignore you from that point, they're probably doing it on purpose. You don't want friends like that.
     
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    You know what, if they're straight up ignoring you, just walk the f*** over to them and if they go away, literally just block their way, and ask them why they're being a*****es.
    If they answer you, find a way to solve the problem from there. If they still ignore you? Give em a nice 'f*** you' and leave.
     
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