Crush on a girl, but don't really know what to do :/

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  1. RigoBurrito
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    Ok, so I have been at Dawes Middle School for 6th and 7th grade, and I recently started liking this girl that's the same age as me. We have been talking for a good amount of time, and we even exchanged each others birthday. I did some research on our zodiac signs, and they are one of the most highest zodiac combos to have a good relationship and communication. I am a Virgo, and she is a Taurus. I don't know if she likes me back, so I am not trying anything that flirty on her. We talked one or two times to each other on Facebook, and I can obviously tell there is a difference on her attitude in and out of school. It is only more than half into the first quarter, but I am afraid that if I don't make a move now, I might lose the chance to talk to her and become more than friends. Would really really really appreciate it if someone could tell me something that I could tell her that would boost my chances with her, or make me more likable to her. Thanks!
     
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    Hmm this may not be the best advice but here I go, first get to know her more, find things that you are both interested in and talk about that. Sooner or later a strong friendship would be sure to grow. After that, if you still have a crush on her confront her about it. She'll never know until you say something about it, and who knows maybe she likes you too. And if she doesn't then you could remain friends, if your friendship is strong and true if she doesn't like you the same way you like her your friendship won't be affected.
    That is just my input on things, personally I would like a guy that is straight forward, you would know exactly what they are saying and you won't be wasting time figuring out what games they are trying to play.
    I hope this helped, and good luck!
    Side note: I also think that dating in middle school is a bit too early for a relationship with a person. I mean you still have a whole life up ahead of you, I personally would just stick to focusing on school work, but hey, it's your life after all. Do what makes you happy.
     
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    You've got time. A looooot of time. Crushes are nice. If you like spending time with her, continue to do so. Do things with her, and talk to her. You have no idea what will happen in the future, but it doesn't really matter at this point. Just enjoy her company for now and see what happens a few years from now. I would suggest not making a move to try and be more than friends right now. Wait a few years. Neither of you are going anywhere for a while. :p good luck.
     
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    Not tryna be rude, but even if you do ask her out I doubt that s*** would last. You're like, 12.
     
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    Thanks for all the advice :0
     
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    No hate but you put a lot of research into this, (ex. zodiac signs.) Just chill out and SHIA LABOUEF MOMENT JUST DO IT
     
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    XD ehh tbh friendzone is a better spot then ever to be in for a guy, cause that's when she may start falling for you. (Imo)
    After being friends for a while, feelings may deepen or lessen, depending on what more about the person you find out.
     
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    Gonna give the same advice of "get to know her better first:
     
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    OH HI MOONLIGHT! I didnt expect to see you here.
     
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    WHAT EVEN, NO ONE TAGGED ME? I'M A FANGIRL, AN EXPERT ON THIS.

    Okay, okay, let's get started.
    First, how well do you know her? Get to know her well, like Love said, be friends, get all that done.
    Second, try flirting. I mean, don't go overboard, but just attempt it, to see how she reacts. If she's fine with it, that's awesome.
    Lastly, just try and notice small things, I mean, there could be hints if she likes you back.

    If the signs are positive? Go for it, ask her out. #YOLO xD

    Also, age doesn't matter that much, I support all kinds of love, [no incest or weird thingies doe], okie, bye, my job here is done.
     
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    Fight her

    Or just tell her you like her, no point beating around the bush because if she doesn't like you then she doesn't like you, however, if she likes you then you've just saved a lot of time.

    I wouldn't worry about relationships if you're 12, especially if you think zodiac signs come into love.
     
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    Advice from a mom:
    Don't put your school name on here. There are creepy people all over the internet!
    Secondly: you are so young you have all the time in the world. Get to know her, become friends, ask her if she wants to hang out. You don't have to rush into boyfriend/girlfriend status just yet. I agree that you should take things slow. Let it happen naturally.
    Also: I totally believe in the zodiac stuff, but don't rely on that completely. My fiance is a Virgo, I'm a pisces. He was meant for me more than any cancer in the world. :p
     
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    I agree with this advice. Even if you do like her and she likes you, pretty much nothing will come out of a relationship simply because you're too young. Just wait until il your're both older, and if you still like her ask her out then.
     
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    Yeah, you have no chance to date her with that belief in Zodiac signs.
     
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    Also zodiac signs are bulls***.
     
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    I believe in zodiac signs and have had plenty of dates. You believe what you want to believe. Don't let anyone cloud your own judgement.
     
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    As much as you dislike my comment I really doubt some stars that'll explode in a few millenniums will dictate your like and future.
     
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    Kiss her face and see what happens. Thats what i do. They all like me tho
     
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    I believe that the time of the year that you are born gives certain qualities to a person. I'm going to take a guess and say Aries? I could be wrong... But you strike me as an Aries. :p
     
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