Rant about things/Story time about relationships

Okay I want to rant about love and all this stuff, every-time I fall for someone Its someone who turns out really bad and it never works out.. My first guy I never considered a boyfriend due to the fake he dated me to find out I was datable after I fell so hard for him, Example I was on a bungee cord and I was preparing to fall for him and when I finally did the cord snapped and I wasn't sure If I would come back alive.. The second one was the hardest .-. He cheated on my with a girl I never liked due to the fact when I was on the best she got me kicked off the bus because of my attitude towards her when I was really defending myself.. Ah number 3 was interesting ;-; he was prefect in every way my brother introduced us (He was 3 years older then me) and was my longest guy I fell so hard I hit the ground a bunch of times... We broke up when he said he liked his Xbox better then me I was so upset.. Story time is over and a bit of a rant... WHY do I fall for guys I know in my head will never last and we only cause me emotional stress Its hard to say this without sobbing.. I feel like I'm going to be in a never- ending dating on and off guy thing.. before people start saying "Get off Minecraft and meet people" all these guys are Irl so shush peoples.. :_:... Idk you don't have to respond had to get things off my chests sorry if you can't understand this Its 4 am >_<..

A Note to Mods: Can you edit the grammar if you see a Mistake .-. please I'm too tired to edit..

 

I know how you feel. My first girlfriend was a spoilt brat and all she did was wanted me was to get off my xbox and computer and talk to her friends ._. Im social just her friends were weird Lol, them my next girlfriend ruined my heart by cheating on me 4 times >.< FInally i have a crush on a girl in my class but i think shes dating or has a crush on someone else .-. X_x and i dunno if she likes meh. My life 2014 :L This is why i spend my time on minecraft the girls are nice their and are into what i like. But grace i feel bad for you you've been through worst then i have. Hope your Hearts Ok SKyblock and im here if you ever need us

 

You'll find someone, don't worry, it'll all work out. 3

 

Why are love stories always tragedies? My girlfriend like her twitter and makeup more than me, so she dumped me because i had less than 200 followers, weird thing is, I don't have twitter...




But back to Grace, THOSE UGLY POOFACES DONT DESERVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUU......
You do realize that right?

 

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Don't worry Grace, you'll eventually find someone who will love you for exactly what you are Just wait

 

I can understand how you feel but in another sense I don't. I have never had a proper bf irl and have only e-dated 2. It can get quite depressing but you will eventually meet the right person I probably have no idea what I'm going on about due to the fact I have no clue what its like to have a bf I could cuddle, probably because I have rejected every guy that has asked me because they are weird/crazy. Idk what is with people ik irl with AD-HD liking me. #GirlProblems

 

#ForeverAlone

 

Eh.
Relationships.
I can't do them.
Just can't.
Pretty fun figuring that one out I must say.
I'm taking a break from the dating scene.
Starting high school, need to focus on actually getting somewhere.
If somebody absolutely perfect for me shows up IRL, I may get somewhere.
Anyway, Grace, you're amazing. You deserve somebody amazing. You'll find somebody for you, somebody who deserves you. Until then, join the club.

 

You shouldn't focus on dating until 18-20, during the early teenage years people just want a boyfriend/girlfriend just because others have one. Most highschool relationships fail.

 

My aunt met her husband when she was 8. They starting dating when they were both 13, and married when they were both 26, which was last year

 

That is the exception. I don't expect to find anything like that. But that is flippin adorable.

 

Uhh i dated a girl in kindergarten, snd i proposed to her with a ring pop, I never saw her after that year..saddest story ever.

 

Is it weird I got proposed to in kindergarten/ 1st grade with a ring pop as well?

Ps. Ring pops made you "cool" when you were younger.

Pps. They still make you cool

Otherwise, I'm really weird with relationships, and I tend to push people away.

 

I can see that happening

 

Maybe you've met each other again

 

but i dont know who she is...but do I?

 

Try not to focus so much on it. Anyone I've ever talked to who's in a stable, caring relationship... you ask them about the person they're married to / dating and you get "They're my best friend.". There's nothing wrong with meeting people and just becoming friends, then starting to date later if you're both feeling it. And if you don't... then more friends.

I have a strange outlook on things, but it comes from the people I'm around. I don't see much of a difference between friendships and relationships... besides the "I'll tell you when you're older" bits. >.>

But my family and friends are slightly insane. For example one of my brother in laws let me borrow military grade night vision goggles so we could play hide and go seek in pitch black dark, while making my sister look slight dense with some jokes and an infra-red glowstick. The other one once threw paper balls at me and my sister while letting out this high pitched girl squeal while we were watching a horror movie (that he was too scared to actually watch with us). Both situations born of fun and friendship, but between husband, wife and random assorted family members that were present. I've always been shown that a marriage is just a friendship with tax shelters and children. XD

My closest guy friend (because, I'm his dating advice hotline for some strange reason ) he met his current girlfriend (who he's talking about proposing to.. eeee *excited*) while he was dating one of his crazy exes (the one I was practically begging him to dump since she was a clingy witchy sort of girl who was way too controlling and made him miserable) so at the time, they were just working together. They became quite good friends, then he moved to the city and they lost touch. After dumping the crazy girl, well, about 6 months after that, he was back in town and met up with the old friend. They started hanging out again, and after a week, they were dating. And now they're living together and he's thinking about proposing.

So, try not to focus so much on it. When you try to force relationships or love, you end up with whack jobs, or you just end up alienating good people, or yourself really. Just live your life, meet people and be open to your feelings.

As for people you care about breaking your heart, they do that. Basically to know you've got a good thing, you have to know what a bad thing is first. You have to be through heart breaks, it's a part of life and a part of being human. Sometimes it's not going to work out, some people just aren't compatible. And yes, I've had some pretty serious crushes on people who pretty much didn't know I existed (or at least consistently pretended I didn't exist). I understand that it can be painful, but I've always found that accepting those feelings (yes, I like him/her), understanding why you like them (sometimes it's just surface reasons), and embracing the hurt (it's never going to happen, they will never be mine) and then letting it go (they won't be mine, but I can still be happy and so will they), helps.

Basically, you're young. You've got all the time in the world to find someone, and so much more to focus on. Let nature take it's course and as long as you're open to it, I'm sure you'll find it someday. Let people in, get hurt and learn to communicate along the way. When you find someone you click with, that you can accept their flaws and they accept yours, that completes you while still being somewhat similar to you, all the heartbreaks will make sense, and they'll have made you the woman you are.

And, as per usual I've typed too much. >.> Eh, just listen to the song, kay?

 

Or do you

 

What if I proposed to you, back when we were little, and we technically didn't break up, what would that make us????