(temporary) bye

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  1. lilCupcakeFreak
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    So, last week I quit and heard that people wondered where I went.

    A few months ago I started to find help for, what turns out to be, my Social Anxiety. It's been rough, exhausting and very difficult.
    Social Anxiety really very boldly explained comes down to being affraid/worried to be judged or make a fool out of yourself in social situations, difficulty making and maintaining friends, panic/anxiety attacks, never feeling good enough and really just constant stress in any situation where there are other people involved.

    And even tho I love the people on here a lot and I concider them my only friends, it's been getting more and more difficult to cancel out my anxiety that forces me to be on, be seen and be liked.
    So I left everything, messed up a lot of friendships I made on here, BUT last week I noticed my head being a lot more clear. I have become a more enjoyable parent (imo anyway).

    I don't know if this break will be just for the summer holidays or for longer, but here we are.

    I'd love it if people reached out to me personally instead of asking my friends where I've gone, so feel free to message me on here or on Discord Cupcake#4967. I might be socially anxious but I love to be around people (Yeah it's a great combo, I'm very lucky)

    x Cup

    PS. I do want to finish my island, so if you see me on I'm probably in /quiet
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    It’s great that you’re prioritizing your well-being first cupcake, I love you :heart: take all the time you need. We’ll be here :)
     
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    Wanna chime in and say that it's always cool and good to learn more about the way you operate and how you can best prevent any brain funniness. Breaks are totally a valid part of that, and I hope you have a very good one!

    I know we don't interact much, but I vaguely remember you from the ancient times lol
     
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    Too many people, many young people, suffering anxiety and stress now days. One of Drogo's most dearest people suffers with it but is slowly finding her way though it so Drogo understands the struggles.
    Drogo finds people who suffer with this are often very kind and caring people. Find the people that recognise that in you and most importantly recognise it in yourself.
    Best of luck to you.
     
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    Real life first. DMs are always open for you! Huge support n love always :pepeknit:
     
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    Bye, we will be here when you come back :D
     
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    very proud of you for prioritizing yourself. skyblock will always be here (hopefully), and it's important you take care of yourself first. i hope everything goes well, and lots of support for you! :heart:
     
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    Take care of yourself cuppy :) Looking forward to welcoming you back.
     
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    Bestie I am so proud of you taking a step back from something you love and enjoy doing to better yourself and work on you. It has seemed like it is paying off with you being able to enjoy life a little more and have all the fun with your kids. I’ll always be here for ya and skyblock isn’t going anywhere so take all the time you need to focus on life. You are the best!!
     
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    Y'all are making my unstable butt cry:sobbing:

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    So proud of you for taking a break when you feel you need it most. We'll miss you Cuppy but IRL always comes first!! I hope you enjoy your break and we'll be here for whenever you decide to return! :heart: :heartface:
     
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    Love you mom!! I hope everythings ok. Ill send cookies too!!!
     
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    take care of you. your body matters. :heart:
     
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    Hey man, i've never been able to meet you yet however i'm deeply sorry about your Anxiety attacks, as someone who struggles with anxiety aswell i know how terrible anxiety attacks can be, however i've never had as bad as you're having. i pray your anxiety will calm down and you will be able to return to us again in the near future, until then enjoy your break/rest from the server.
     
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    Take care cuppy ! Hope you feel better :D
     
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    (((Muffinnn)))
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